While they're alive
Safety: Falls, Driving, Wandering & Scams
Home modifications, when and how to retire from driving, recognizing financial exploitation, and firearm safety in the home.
Do this first
Remove all throw rugs from your loved one's home today. Throw rugs are the number one physical tripping hazard leading to hip fractures and hospitalizations.
Fall prevention: Simple high-impact changes
- Remove throw rugs, runners, and loose cords across hallways.
- Install grab bars (screwed into wall studs, never suction cups) inside the shower and beside the toilet.
- Add motion-activated nightlights between the bed and bathroom.
- Place a shower bench and handheld shower sprayer to eliminate standing while bathing.
Driving retirement: How to transition gracefully
Giving up car keys feels like losing adulthood.
- Have their primary care doctor or an occupational therapy driving evaluator write an official medical recommendation to stop driving. Most people are far more likely to accept a doctor's order than a family member's demand.
- Set up alternative transportation beforehand (Uber/Lyft family profile, local volunteer senior shuttles, church rides).
- Disable or sell the car if cognitive decline causes them to forget their driving restriction.
Elder financial abuse & scam warnings
Older adults are frequent targets of scams and financial exploitation.
- Watch for: Sudden checks made out to cash, wire transfers to overseas lotteries, a new "helpful friend" who isolates them, or unpaid utility bills when money was previously ample.
- Put freeze on three credit bureaus (Equifax, Experian, TransUnion).
- Report elder abuse immediately to Adult Protective Services (APS) in your loved one's county.
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Clear wide paths for walkers and wheelchairs.
Safely lock and store ammunition separately, or transfer firearms legally to family.
Prevents scammers from opening credit cards in your loved one's name.
Sources
- CDC STEADI Fall Prevention
- National Highway Traffic Safety Administration
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau
Last reviewed: September 28, 2026